I am an adult virgin and extremely nervous about approaching my sexuality around other people. Can you help me with this?
This is an area that has been within our work for many years. Supporting adults who identify as virgins or who feel inexperienced in their sexuality is something we approach with sensitivity, professionalism and care. Just like in the TV programme Virgin Island , our work is grounded in conscious touch, emotional safety and trauma‑informed guidance.
I’m considering the Stay with Me experience. What does it feel like to live with you and your family?
Sam and I have hosted guests, community and live-in volunteers for 18 years. Wherever we are, we are open to this way of life. Having someone stay with me is often the best way to see our life up-close and get to feel a part of our community. This season we are (for the first time in years) not living in an active community. We are just a family with some members living away. So this will have a different dynamic, one that is calmer, quieter and, perhaps, more focused. However, you do join in on everyday life with me, and from what we have agreed and planned, we enjoy the rhythm and experiences together, which will feel like coming home! You will get plenty of time to rest and be alone and I am good at maintaining those boundaries even if you might struggle with finding them. For any specific questions in this, please email me directly at beth@sensitivita.com or book in a complimentary 15-minute call at intouch@sensitivita.com .here . Here is a video of our co-founder Sam, sharing what he enjoys most when hosting beautiful humans. You can also see what some of our guests think of their respective experiences:
What is conscious touch and how is it used in your sessions?
Conscious touch is a therapeutic, fully clothed and consent‑based approach to supporting the nervous system. It is not sexual touch.
I want to start doing Dynamic Mentorship, but I don't live locally. How do I know I will receive the full benefits of the sessions online?
Honestly, Dynamic Mentorship can be as impactful online as it is in-person. I have been amazed by just how intimate, raw, fun, deep, and life-changing online work can be. I literally am a dinosaur with tech and came to the idea of working online screaming. But after facing my fears and welcoming it, I have never looked back. I have worked with clients all over the world and not once has anyone felt like they are getting the short end of the stick. I have often found that clients also become open to the idea of booking bespoke retreats with me (Stay with Me is an example) after a while of online coaching, so this is a lovely way to meet in-person for those who are able too!
What is sexological bodywork and is it the same as sex therapy?
Sexological bodywork is an educational and somatic modality that focuses on body awareness, breath, movement and emotional integration. It is not the same as sex therapy, which is a psychological talk‑based modality.
How is sexual healing part of my personal development journey?
Sexual healing, as we define it, is a process of reconnecting with your body, emotions and sense of safety. It may involve nervous system regulation, trauma‑informed guidance, breathwork and embodied practices.
Sexual healing is not about sexual acts. It is about supporting your emotional well-being, releasing shame and learning to inhabit your body with more confidence and ease. Many clients integrate this work into their wider personal development journey.
Do you offer tantra for beginners?
Yes. We offer tantra for beginners in a way that is grounded, accessible, and non‑sexual. Our approach focuses on breathwork, presence, emotional connection and embodied awareness.
